
The mission of Mother Theresa’s Missionaries of Charity is to
care for “the hungry, the naked, the homeless, the crippled, the
blind, the lepers, all those people who feel unwanted, unloved,
uncared for throughout society, people that have become a
burden to the society and are shunned by everyone”. They are
running orphanages, AIDS hospices, caring for alcoholics, the
disabled, the poor through out the world.
When is that point of creation for that mysterious force that we call life? I think “some weeks after conception” isn’t the right answer. I believe a human fetus is human and I do object to ending human life. I object when someone say that those children were not meant to be. According to whom? Even if you look at it in a deterministic way why would we then have to interfere if they where not meant to be? And if we where meant to take this action aren’t we accountable for it?
Sorry I stole your car. Shot your cat, littered your lawn. Well, you know… It was meant to be…
In Marie’s two recent posts on abortion she brings up this important topic from two different angles. In Bishop Refuses Rudy Giuliani Invite she considers the political aspects on the debate between pro-choice and pro-life. In the post Helping To Stop Abortion she introduces the Sisters of Life for all of us who hadn’t heard of them previously.
To me personally this is the two perspectives that I find most interesting and important. First: Are the parents free to choose what they believe is right? (as Rudy Giuliani believes) Second: How do we take care of the children that are born?
In many ways the abortion movement is acting out of misguided consideration. They believe abortion to be the answer to broken homes, sexual abuse; unwanted children so forth and sadly so on. In my opinion the best way to fight abortion is to prepare place for all the unwanted children, and to help poor family’s all over the world.
This is why I get so happy when reading about the sisters of life, but I do believe we all must address this problem. Running around and being judgmental is the all wrong approach. We should educate. We should propagate with love and act as examples in taking care of family’s with problems. I think legislation, without a change of perception, risk to just abandon young mothers, just as they are abandoned now in society’s that recommends abortion.
I have hard to see how anything good can come out of an abortion. The double negation might work in mathematics but when it comes to abortion I think it most often doesn’t solve a problem but adds another hardship for the mother to deal with. When a mother has performed an abortion I think it is very hard to acknowledge for her what actually have been done. Logic and fancy arguments are not the proper weapon to fight guilt with. We all do what we can to survive. Still according to my experience every abortion is filled with sorrow and remorse for the parents to be. Sooner or later.
Either they can accept their guilt, and that is a too hard of a burden for the most of us. You need God for that. Or they can keep telling themselves that they did the right thing, the only thing, the best thing even for the child. By going on like many pro-life people does, they are most probably just driving those parent further away, risking them to do it again or in the case of legislation abandon young women with only guilt and home remedies to get by.
Call me an idealist if you want, but acknowledge that I’m being pragmatic. Call me a pragmatic if you want, but acknowledge that I’m being idealistic: The best way to care for the unborn is to care for those who already are born. That is why I believe orders like The Sisters of Life and The Missionaries of Charity is so important. Their work goes hand in hand.
They are our front soldiers against the slaughter of the innocent.

June 10, 2007 at 1:32 am
This is a very important point Joakim. Women need to know that pro choice should mean that they CAN choose to have the baby and that they will get the support they so obviously need, if they were contemplating abortion in the first place. Many who consider abortion are quite desperate, or they wouldn’t consider it.
Ps I just wanted to say I’m sorry I forgot to add your blog to my blogger friends post. I’ve been using two different computers and I didn’t have your address among my favorites on the computer I used that day. I find your pragmatic idealism to be very refreshing and am glad to visit your place. Ciao!
June 10, 2007 at 6:37 am
Joakim:)
this is close to my heart because my own niece became pregnant at only 16 years of age. Despite tremedous pressure from her boyfriend she did NOT abort her child, thank goodness. I can say that I prayed SO hard for her to keep her baby. But I did NOT judge her nor preach at her, I only reminded her that ALL life is sacred and whatever decision she made she would have to LIVE with it. Then I left it and PRAYED much:).
My niece kept her baby, she also graduated from school and all this while she was suffering terrible post natal depression. Her gorgeous son is now 8 years old and she is a good mother.
I told my niece that her son is better behaved than she was at the same age LOL!
I have decided to save and make a large donation to the Sisters of Life for this is a way that mothers who are going through difficulties to be supported in a practical manner without the judgement!
Excellent piece Joakim:) THANKYOU for expressing it so well:).
Peace and blessings to you:)
Marie
June 10, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Thanks for commenting. I was concerned that people would misunderstand what I meant. I’m very glad you didn’t.
Herren vare med er! (May the lord be with you)
//Joakim
June 11, 2007 at 2:01 am
Thanks so much for this post Joakim.
June 11, 2007 at 2:45 am
Thanks Therese. It means a lot.
June 17, 2007 at 9:22 am
WOW WOW WOW; it’s sucha great news! I do thank the Lord for your joining His Church. I’ll offer this Mass for you today, not that I’m a priest, but yet I always offe Mass for someone.
Ciao for now
Freddie
June 17, 2007 at 9:45 am
Thank you very much, for your kindness, brother Freddie.